as mazila already worte, get hyperlobby and you´ll find some historical server, but also some nasty funserver with "Icon on etc etc. "
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mazila and myself are flying with "hard settings".
the first time its of course harder for you but later nothing can beat a fight on a full real server ,am i right, nikolai ?
some onlinewars, for examlpe : VOW .
flying in a squad is needed to survive there.
www.vow-hq.com
there is a very large squadronlist , i am sure there is something for you,too.