I recall that in a television interview (some program available on VHS / CD), Bud Anderson described exactly such an event even down to the colour of the pilot's uniform, gloves, salute, etc. I am sue that you will find all the details on his website, especially if you post a query on the Discussion Board (scroll down to the bottom of the page - it is a long one:
http://www.cebudanderson.com
As to the identity of the Luftwaffe pliot, well, if we had a location, date and time, that would certainly help fellow enthusiasts in generating some possible candidates. We'll be waiting . . .
Cheers,
David